很露骨9句职场生存法则
1.别人请你帮小忙,如果能帮别只说“好或是OK”
大学时,我有一个问卷调查想请一个哥们帮我转发,他收到消息后回复:“没问题呀,我微信2000多个好友,马上帮你推一波,效果肯定杠杠滴。”
他这句话我至今仍然印象深刻,发自内心觉得哥们太够意思了。
刚刚那哥们的一段话,会让你觉得对方很乐意帮你,而且真能帮到你,你对他就不会有愧疚,取而代之的是慢慢的感激与超好的印象
2.不是很熟的关系,如果对方微信约你,你准备拒绝最好电话或者微信语音通过来讲
拒绝别人时,别人容易想多,而且你拒绝别人后可能要约别的时间又得和对方商量,直接一通电话,1分钟搞定,还没误会
3.不要试图去讨好,把自己当做平等的人
要从内心把自己当做一个平等的人,当被人试图展现高你一等,对你呼来喝去的时候,适当时候学会拒绝。
4.不要交浅言深
尤其当人处于陌生环境时,因为没有熟悉的人,安全感缺失,很容易把不正确的目标当做倾诉对象
5.不管是从事什么行业,要有自己的核心竞争力。
行走江湖,不管是技能,资源或者其他,握在自己手里的才是筹码,依托他人发挥的都是赌博。
6.拒绝别人,把原因归结于自己
把拒绝的原因归结于自己,这样既可以表达拒绝的姿态,又不会让对象尴尬。
7.同一类错误不能犯第二次
如果同一类错误,你犯第二次,那么你就不是一个可堪大任的人。
8.永远不要说“我不知道”
“你可以情商低,智商低,但不能搜商低。”
9.进入职场,你是来工作的,成就事业的,不是来交朋友的。
不要容易因为情绪、喜好、性格排斥某个合作对象,这是十分不专业的表现。
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