一天到晚QQ、微信、电话都不响的人,是什么样的人?原因太真实 爱图集 2019-03-19 08:35:33
孤单,是一个人的狂欢,狂欢,是一群人的孤单。如果一个人一天到晚QQ、微信、电话都没有信息,这是怎么样的一个人?
这似乎是大部分人的生活常态了,除了工作上的练习,其他时间手机几乎没有响过,有的也只是垃圾短信和“花费余额不足”,这样的生活是否太冷清了?
生活中有许多这样的人,高速发展的科技和互联网给我们带来了便利,现在的一部手机能做好多事情,互联网革命让我们的社交方式也发生了转变,之前是face to face,现在也是face to face,只不过面前的是手机。我们用手机交友聊天,有什么事儿可以语音视频,不用再像之前那样为了一件儿事儿专门见个面了,久而久之人们更加依赖手机,而手机也让我们变得越来越孤独。
没人关心也不关心别人
手机不响代表没有人关心,一方面是没人找你聊天,这实在是没有存在感啊,另一方面是这类人从不主动联系别人,不论是家人朋友还是同事,他们更喜欢结交陌生人,把平时不想说的话说给陌生人听,陌生人听了听后也就没有然后了;
自卑自闭活在自己的世界里
这类人白天学习工作时表现的比较热情,充满朝气,晚上回家后就像变了一个人,脱去繁重的衣服顺便脱去伪装,没有人聊天也无所谓,他们更加喜欢这种安静的生活,抱着手机看新闻、刷朋友圈、看微博,看到搞笑的内容哈哈一笑;和自己的性格有一定的关系,另外就是时间长了他们已然习惯这种安静的生活;
像我这样的人,需要别人关心吗?
像我这样优秀的人,需要有QQ消息吗?像我这样聪明的人,需要有微信消息吗?像我这样不甘平凡的人,需要有电话来吗?是啊,像这些优秀的人不需要别人的关心,有事儿时和别人聊几句,无聊的时候自己玩自己的,别人是否联系他无所谓的。
你是这样的人吗?他们除了活在自己的世界里,还有哪些特征呢?在别人眼中他们是孤单的小可爱,在他们自己心中觉得已经是日常操作了,这样的人应该也会痛苦吧,谁喜欢孤独谁喜欢被鼓励呢?可是又不愿打开窗户让阳光照进来……大家找个大太阳的日子,把被子拿出去晒晒吧。
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