阿里程序员:加班晚归被女友锁在门外,网友:程序员要什么女朋友
在互联网社区,一名在阿里工作的程序员发帖诉苦,发帖称:这是在阿里的第N天,已经连续一周每天工作13小时以上,周六又去加班,女友因为我陪她的时间太少闹了好几次情绪,今天回家被女友锁在门外了,大冬天的被锁在门外,突然感觉找不到生活的意义了。
在外人看来,楼主在名企工作且阿里程序员工资高在行业内是人尽皆知的,可是没想到光鲜亮丽的背后也有心酸的一面。而在同行来看却习以为常:我也想离职了,在阿里的日子里面失去太多太多;在阿里不就是为了挣钱吗,原本就没有活着的意义;在行业内哪家公司不加班;这周995,中午迎来周六,好了一丢,9点上班,6点下班,作为一个女生,加班加到皮肤越来越差,也是没脾气了。
所以鱼与熊掌不可兼得,选择了高工资就避免不了加班。有网友表示:工作不是生活的全部,钱是挣不完的,适当调整工作与生活之间的平衡点,建议找一个965的工作才是王道;这个时候要多沟通,要让对象也知道你的压力,这样她对你才会心疼,而不是相互抱怨责怪,让彼此之间的隔阂越来越大。
各位网友你们怎么看呢?无休止的加班是否失去了太多,欢迎来评!
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